“What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.” (1 Cor. 7:29–31)
“I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.” (1 Cor. 7:32–35)
Time is short. The brevity of our life, and more broadly, that of the world, provides a perspective that shifts our concerns. Our hierarchy of concern still contains worldly concerns (especially if we are married in the context of this passage). Hence, we will still have worldly concerns such as buying and using things of this world. But Paul is pushing us to the limits of this logic. We buy and use in such a way that it’s as if we never owned what we buy or ‘use’ what we use. (The NIV uses the word “engrossed” when translating the more literal word “use” to convey that we can be consumed by the idea of getting the most out of the things of this world)
Ironically, we live in a world that is concerned with the brevity of life, but at the end of life there is no hope or vision of God. That is to say that this life is all there is; hence, we should get the most out of the things of this world. This view and the Christian view almost look identical – as they share the perspective that our time is short. But of course, the former view has no ‘hereafter’.
Minimalism and offshoots like it (even anti-capitalist critiques of it) are still extremely worldly. They operate within a temporal sphere and emphasise our need to make the most of the relationships we have now. The hope is that during our journey in this world we would be more at peace and focus on the things that really matter, like relationships and experiences. Many that talk this way are half right. Sadly, that still leaves them stuck with the problem that all things pass away. So why would relationships and experiences somehow be a better arbitrary standard for a life well lived?
As John reminds us, “The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” (1 John 2:17)
Even if we have fewer material possessions, those possessions will inevitably pass away.
Even if we prioritise relationships and experiences, we must remember that they are temporary and will eventually come to an end (in the secular framework, that is).
Paul is advocating for a particular kind of worldview, a view of the world from the perspective of the end. But at the end is the resurrection and our entrance into the presence of the Lord.
A perspective from the present moment, a worldly perspective, means to be dominated by the imminence of material needs and possessions, especially as they contribute to worldly thriving; whether relationally (marriage or singleness) or economically (business, buying, possessions).
Paul speaks of a Christian’s concern. The Christian’s desire is to please the Lord. But if a Christian is too closely associated (the language of possessing) with using the things of this world, then their concerns and devotion are (potentially) unbalanced. The Christian is always to be concerned and devoted to the Lord. Some Christians who are married will have competing concerns and devotions, and so must work harder to have the Lord’s affairs at the forefront of their mind (while in Paul’s argument, the single person potentially has more room for the concerns of the Lord).
This passage speaks predominantly about marriage and singleness. But worldly possessions and business (buying and using) are mingled into that subject. I’ve been reflecting on the possessions aspect of it mainly. That’s because I am someone who is easily ‘engrossed’ by the world. So, my mind and heart lingered on these verses. I am a married man, but this passage speaks to everyone who finds their heart longs for worldly matters more than heavenly ones.
The antidote? Paul seems to advocate for some sort of emotional/psychological distancing of sorts from worldly matters. He is extreme, sure (if happy, be as though not happy; if mourning, be as though not mourning, etc.). But to detach is wise because the world is passing.
I’m not sure why we forget that the world is passing away. I’m not sure why we forget that everything is temporary. We seem never to forget that we’re going to die. But still, we live as if we are not going to die. I think that is strange. In one sense, it’s true. We were made to experience life with God that never ends. Death is an aberration. So I think our forgetfulness at death could potentially be connected to our initial purpose to live forever with the Lord. But the presence of death is so utterly undeniable as it leaves a mark on literally everything as literally, everything is passing away.
The Bible proposes that we live with the end in mind. Because all things are passing away, nothing should engross us. Easier said than done, because that requires regular remembrance. The best way to do that (without staring at dead people) is to read your Bible.
A biblical perspective on the temporal nature of this world is also a safeguard. We could live a life of licentiousness and hedonism motivated by the fact that everything is fleeting. But as Paul helpfully reminds us (because we so easily do that), we are motivated by our devotion to the Lord. Much as Jesus lived a life of devotion and a perfect balance of loving the world and yet not been engrossed in it, we follow. Although on the path there will be a gate to pass through named death, it will be a transformation. Much better than an abrupt ending, rendering all prior things as ill-spent and squandered benefits.
